Diary of a Thriving Mum

Dear Single Mum,

December hits differently for me. It’s the month I married my ex and, ironically, the time of year when the absence of a partner feels magnified. The holidays are a whirlwind of emotions—filled with the pressure to create joy for my daughter while silently battling the loneliness that creeps in, especially when it’s freezing outside (and boy, does that cold amplify everything!).

I adore being a mom, but some days, I feel lost. I never really mourned the end of my relationship. Instead, I shifted into survival mode—being “strong” for my daughter. But tonight, as she sleeps peacefully, my heart feels heavy.

A friend asked me today if I’d ever want to be with my ex again. The answer? A resounding no (a story for another time), but I do miss having my person—someone to lean on, to share the little moments, and to make the big ones feel less daunting.

I know I’m rambling, but this is my reality, and maybe it’s yours too. How are the holidays for you as a single parent? Let’s share, connect, and maybe help each other feel a little less alone. 💕